I can accept his child, but why can’t he accept mine? Single parents dating double standard.?
I recently got involved with a single father who has 2 children from previous marriage. One boy 7 one boy 5 years old.
He said he loves me and we get along well (been dating for 8 months already).
I have a girl 3 years old from previous relationship (never got married)
This guy told me he would prefer to date one on one with no kids. But he always bring his two sons along, and when I bring my daughter, He got upset. He totally ignored my daughter.
Finally, I confronted him, he told me honestly “well, I just don’t think I can deal with other men’s kid.” I am furious. I told him “If you cannot accept my daughter, don’t expect me to be in the picture.” He apologized to me and told me he would do a better job.
But I am very discouraged now. Should I give him another chance? or should I call it quits already.
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walk away and do so now bc it’s not going to get better. He knew how to behave and he is just appeasing you for now.
If he’s like that ”another man’s child” he’s got some big time issues and needs to deal but not with you and your child.
That’s your idicator/your warning sign that it’s not going to work!