Comments on: what do you do when your child says they don’t want to see you? http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/ Single Parent Support, Single Parent Holidays, Single Parent Adoption & Single Parent Dating Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:16:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: KnA http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1792 KnA Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:31:16 +0000 http://beasingleparent.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you#comment-1792 I would suggest you call on your weekends and give them the option to join you for the weekend...if they say no, then yes, it will hurt, but don't give up, make sure they know that you are available...when it is your weekend again, call and ask them...never miss, always make sure that they know that you want to spend time with them but are giving them the option...you can also write them letters and express to them that no matter what you will always love them...its hard, but you can't force them to enjoy time with you, could be their father is filling their heads with lies and by you trying to fix those lies or undoing them it makes you seem guilty, let them come to realize on their own that you genuinely love them and want to spend time with them I would suggest you call on your weekends and give them the option to join you for the weekend…if they say no, then yes, it will hurt, but don’t give up, make sure they know that you are available…when it is your weekend again, call and ask them…never miss, always make sure that they know that you want to spend time with them but are giving them the option…you can also write them letters and express to them that no matter what you will always love them…its hard, but you can’t force them to enjoy time with you, could be their father is filling their heads with lies and by you trying to fix those lies or undoing them it makes you seem guilty, let them come to realize on their own that you genuinely love them and want to spend time with them

]]> By: Bosco http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1793 Bosco Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:31:16 +0000 http://beasingleparent.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you#comment-1793 GREAT- This will give you a golden opportunity to sign up to be my girlfriend for two weeks in December or January . Sorry all the 2 week bookings are filled up till then . In CASE your kids decide that they want to see you , I will give you a day off. See ya baby . BOSCO GREAT- This will give you a golden opportunity to sign up to be my girlfriend for two weeks in December or January . Sorry all the 2 week bookings are filled up till then .
In CASE your kids decide that they want to see you , I will give you a day off. See ya baby .

BOSCO

]]> By: Sam http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1794 Sam Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:31:16 +0000 http://beasingleparent.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you#comment-1794 whoop their ass and teach them respect whoop their ass and teach them respect

]]> By: Nelson_DeVon http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1795 Nelson_DeVon Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:31:16 +0000 http://beasingleparent.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you#comment-1795 This is a tough question. I don't think that 10 and 12 year olds should be allowed to say they don't want to see you, but you don't want them to be unhappy either. It would help if your ex husband made it easier for you. I hope it works out, but I don't think I can tell you anything very helpful. This is a tough question. I don’t think that 10 and 12 year olds should be allowed to say they don’t want to see you, but you don’t want them to be unhappy either. It would help if your ex husband made it easier for you. I hope it works out, but I don’t think I can tell you anything very helpful.

]]> By: Brad C http://beasingleparent.com/375/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1796 Brad C Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:31:16 +0000 http://beasingleparent.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-child-says-they-dont-want-to-see-you#comment-1796 I would not take it personally. They sound like they are at the age where they are more interested in being with friends then their parents. Ask one of their friends parents if they can stay the night over at your house. Let the 10 year old have a friend on Friday, and the 12 year old on Saturday. That way you get to see both of them and have the attention of one while the other is playing with their friend. I would not take it personally. They sound like they are at the age where they are more interested in being with friends then their parents. Ask one of their friends parents if they can stay the night over at your house. Let the 10 year old have a friend on Friday, and the 12 year old on Saturday. That way you get to see both of them and have the attention of one while the other is playing with their friend.

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