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The court plays an important role in determining what is in the ‘best interests’ of your child. The court considers all aspects as well as physical, instructional, non secular, emotional also preferential needs of a child, thus it makes a study of homes of both parents, along with location, neighborhoods and facilities, before making a decision on custody.

Although the courts have the best interests in mind, there won’t be anyone more important in making the best decision for his or her children than parents. Parents should strive to settle their Child Custody issues outside the courts. A custody decision arrived on your own with two agreeing parents is more agreeable than the one which is disputed and determined by the court.

Preparing for the Child Custody trial, you must possess documents and data related to your children, which can help confirm the best interests of your child. It’s better if you maintained a record of your child’s life concerning events that have an effect on them, like visiting with the opposite parent, grandparents, doctor’s appointment, school activities, family and religious activities, medical appointments and counseling dates, etc. You ought to support your position, by keeping notes.

1) Parent’s Home: This factors determines whether or not you’ll be able to provide sensible surroundings and adequate shelter for your children, the size of the house, neighborhood, availability of help and babysitters, hospitals, bathrooms, bedrooms, etc. play a vital role in determining the best home for the child. Though not an important purpose, it does help build a good impression.

2) New Relationships: This is a comparatively irrelevant issue in determining Child Custody cases, the court will take into account this factor if only the connection makes any impact on the child’s well being. If the new relationship does not pose any problems, then this will not be relevant to determination of Child custody.

3) Status Quo: It is an important factor in determining custody case, if a child’s parents reside in different districts, it in unlikely that the court will order to alter the residence during the academic year, especially if the kid is being properly brought up. If you want a amendment in status quo, you may be required to furnish a good reason for this. A good example would be a difficulty with the current conditions, unsafe for the child.

4) Child’s Preference: The child’s preference isn’t thought of by the court since the court will not provide a child to form a call for himself, however this might not be the case if the child happens to be a teenager and possess enough knowledge to assume and evaluate position.

5) Parent’s Availability: Full time parenting has an advantage over working full time for supporting oneself. However, the court might not defer from giving you the custody solely as a result of you need to work to support yourself and your child.

These are just a few things to think about when getting ready for your Child Custody case.

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My husband and I are getting a separation yet all signs are pointing to a divorce. I was wondering what do single men think of single mothers?? I’m 21 this year and my daughter is only 1 years old. I guess you could say are there men out there who would date a women who has a child already? and why would you exactly?

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This is long, but the background is important. I grew up the youngest of three and I came much later, so I was practically raised as an only child. My sister dropped out of high school her senior year and ran off with her bf (got married, had 2 kids, divorced, married again, divorced and now lives with and mooches off of me and my parents with no education or career). My brother made my parents pay three years of private tuition for him to become a pilot and then he dropped out (never repaid them, in fact went on to rob them blind of all their savings in a failed business attempt). I went to public school, got a full ride to college and graduated .. then got 2 master’s degrees. I started supporting my parents (and my sister who lives with them) when I was 22 and still in college and I still support them today by myself with no help from my brother or sister. I got married when I was 29 (im now 32) to my preschool-sweetheart … and I know for a fact that my siblings envied that.. but everyone loved him and so did I. We’re going through an emotionally horrific divorce right now where we’re both still very much in love with each other, but I can’t forgive him. The problem is that my brother and sister are now treating me like $hlt at the most vulnerable time in my life. When she left her husband, I was there and when he went to jail I was there. When her son had cancer, I was there (even though she wasn’t) and when his fiance cheated on him, I went to bat for him even though no one else did and they all took her side. This is the first time in my life that I have needed to know that they have my back if I need them … which I haven’t … but they criticize me, ridicule me and put the blame of my failed marriage on me. Why are they acting like that? I don’t understand why they can’t be supportive … growing up, my brother was the favorite and my sister did everything in her power to get attention … I pretty much was in the shadows and I was fine with it… I’ve been a loner since I was an infant and I love it… are they upset at me that for once the attention is on me? I can’t fathom why two people who have been so nice to me over the years have now turned on me … it’s not because they’re sorry he’s leaving, it’s like they’re gloating … I just need help trying to understand this. I’m trying to be rational and mature about this whole thing and I hate that for the first time in my life I’m feeling victimized … I have NEVER felt sorry for myself until now .. I guess what I’m trying to ask is, why are they treating me like this?

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Single parents who also go out to work will experience many difficulties. It would be so much easier if married couples could share the load. Finances are always important. Normally, mothers are the ones to raise children, but there are single dads who raise their children alone. It is extremely difficult for a single mother who, at times, is not even a diploma-holder.

It is hard to be a single parent, but it is not impossible to be successful at it. A homemaker can indeed provide a secure, nurturing environment for kids in a one-parent home. It may be one of the hardest things you will have to do, but if you give it your all, you and your family will be better off. Nothing in this world that is worth getting is easy.

You must keep in mind that a kid is a kid, pretty much different from an adult. They are young and hence have a viewpoint that is entirely different from that of an adult. An expensive dinner to us, is what in between meal snacks and old maid are to them. The attention of a parent, such as a song or story, is superior to watching TVs or movies.

To fulfill the child’s needs, parents must provide them with lots of attention. In today’s economy it is hard to make it if both parents do not work, it can be tricky sometimes to juggle work, children; your home and other important things, but it is possible to raise a well adjusted child in a home where both parents work.

If you are a single parent you may feel overwhelmed with the amount of work you have to do. It is hard enough when there are two of you, it twice as hard when you are solo. Don’t forget that one of the most important parts of being a parent is showing your kids love. And since there is only one of you, you should try to show double the affection and care.

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BE HONEST PLEASE… its for coursework

age range:

Ethnicity: afro caribbean or asian (please delete)

family type: nuclear, extended, lone parent or reconstituted (delete as appropiate)

do you believe your husband/partner having control over you is right?

what are your ambitions?

what do you thnik your position in the house is?

what do you live for? (family, ambition, other-please state)

how satisfied would you feel if you had a job? out of ten. ten is very satisfied.

how do you think your culture treats/views single mums (lone parents)?

Do you think lone parents are more independant?

how satisfied are you in your relationship with your husband?

would you get support from your family if you were a lone parent? does this make you feel confident in being/becoming a lone parent?

THANK YOU SO SOOOO MUCH FOR COMPLETING THE QUESTIONNAIRE!!!!
nuclear means – mum and dad and children in the same house

extended means- mum das, childreen and grandparents or aunts/uncles in the same house

reconstituted means – parent remarried after a divorce. living with step parent and biological parent.

lone parent means- mum or dad bringing up child alone. just one parent in the family

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